Jacquelyn & Rémi

What to expect the day of

Learn more about the wedding day plan and details.

What events should I attend?

We would love to have all of our guests attend our church ceremony and our reception following. Due to space, we are only inviting family and our wedding party to our civil ceremony. We will also have a totally optional farewell brunch the day after our wedding. You are more than welcome to stop by before heading out of town.

When should I arrive at the church ceremony?

We are asking guests to arrive no later than 2:15 p.m. at the church (the ceremony will start at 2:30 p.m.). Take a look at our schedule page for more details.

Will I have time in between the ceremony and reception?

Yes! If you need to do a coffee run, shoe change or speed nap, we recommend taking any stops you need before getting to the reception venue. There will be plenty of time for drinks, photos, and catching up at the cocktail before the meal will begin.

Are the events indoors or outdoors?

The civil and church ceremonies will be indoors. If weather permits, the cocktail hour will be outdoors, and the rest of the reception will be indoors.

Do the venues have AC?

Air conditioning is not as common across France as in the United States. The ceremonies will not have air conditioning. The reception does have air conditioning; however, due to the large windows in the space, we would highly recommend guests dressing light or bringing fans if it's going to be a toasty day.

How long will the reception last?

The party will go until 3 a.m., and we would love for you to join us as long as you are able.

Will there be parking available?

For those who will be driving, there will be limited parking at the city hall and the church and ample parking at the reception venue. At the reception venue, you will be asked to park along the tree-lined alley leading to the gates of the property.

Will there be transportation provided?

We have put in place a shuttle service for the Saturday and the Sunday for those who requested it via the RSVP form. See details on the schedule page.

What food will be served at the reception?

We will have light bites and refreshments at the cocktail hour as well as dinner, drinks, snacks, and desserts at the reception. We recommend guests have breakfast and lunch before the ceremony.

Travel questions

Everything from flights to your stay and transportation.

Do I need a Visa to travel to France?

Take a look at our travel page where we have put some information. The short answer is not really, but a new travel authorization system called ETIAS will come into effect sometime in 2023.

When should I arrive and how long should I stay?

We would recommend arriving in Cholet by Friday the 26th (or even the 25th to give you time to deal with jet lag) and staying through the evening of Sunday the 28th. Of course, we would love for you to enjoy France (and Europe) as long as you are able to!

When should I book my flight and trains?

We would recommend booking your flight between 4 to 6 months out. You may want to go ahead and start a flight tracker alert from your home airport to Paris so that you can see how prices shift over time. Trains will not be available to book until around 3 to 4 months out. See more information about this on our travel page.

When should I book my hotel?

We would recommend booking a hotel at least a month in advance.

Do I need a car?

Ride-sharing apps like Uber and Lyft are not very accessible in the areas where the wedding will be. We would recommend out-of-town guests to rent a car in order to get around and see the area. For those who indicated they would use shuttle services on their RSVP, we have the details of this service on our schedule page. We also have phone numbers of local taxi companies on this page.

Do you have a hotel room block?

Room blocks aren't common in France, but you can see our recommendations and advice for lodging on our travel page.

What if I lose my checked baggage?

We strongly recommend that guests carry their wedding attire as well as a change of clothes and essential toiletries into the airplane cabin with them in case of baggage delays. Before checking your bag, always take a photo of it, of its contents, and of your baggage claim tag, to help in the case of an issue.

Do I need an international health insurance plan?

Check with your insurance provider as there is no one answer to this question, unfortunately!

Help...what to pack

Clothes and shoes and toiletries... OH MY!

What is the dress code?

We want you to feel confident and beautiful while remaining comfortable! Is that the fancy dress or suit that's been collecting dust in your closet for years? Or jeans? Shorts? Sure! We highly encourage guests to re-wear something they love or borrow something new from a friend. As far as colors are concerned, please don't wear white, but other than that, go wild. We love ourselves some pops of color and we are envisioning an intimate, garden party sort of vibe.

Do I need to pack anything in particular?

We would recommend that guests pack sunscreen and what they need to stay cool (fans, cooling towels, umbrella, etc.). We would also recommend that you pack enough of any over-the-counter medication that you take because pharmacies in France and the United States have differences in what must be prescribed or can be purchased over-the-counter.

What is the weather like in May?

We are hoping for some sunny weather, and May temperatures in the upper 70s are typical, dropping in the 50s overnight. We recommend you take a look at weather forecasts closer to your trip as this can very much vary year to year!

Should I bring my invitation?

Please don't! Take a picture of it, but don't bring the invitation abroad with you. Since it has seeds in the paper, it should not travel internationally.

Frequently Asked Questions

For the inquisitive minds

What to expect the day of

What events should I attend?

When should I arrive at the church ceremony?

Will I have time in between the ceremony and reception?

Are the events indoors or outdoors?

Do the venues have AC?

How long will the reception last?

Will there be parking available?

Will there be transportation provided?

What food will be served at the reception?

Travel questions

Do I need a Visa to travel to France?

When should I arrive and how long should I stay?

When should I book my flight and trains?

When should I book my hotel?

Do I need a car?

Do you have a hotel room block?

What if I lose my checked baggage?

Do I need an international health insurance plan?

Help...what to pack

What is the dress code?

Do I need to pack anything in particular?

What is the weather like in May?

Should I bring my invitation?

Other questions

When and how do I RSVP?

Can I bring my children?

Can I bring a plus one?

What about my furry friends?

I can't attend the wedding in person. Will there be a virtual option?

What about Covid-19?

Are masks or vaccines required?

Do you have a registry?

Will you be accommodating any diet restrictions?

Will you be serving alcohol at the reception?

What types of seeds are in the invitations?